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Confidence

Confidence. It’s a word that brings images of heads held high, and makes us think of bold, strong voices. People say that confidence is a highly attractive trait, and it’s generally believed that confidence leads to success.

It’s also something I did NOT have as a teenager.

In high school, I wasn’t confident in my academic career, my friendships, or in romance. I was awkward, shy, unpopular, and timid. A lot of it had to do with the types of popularity contests and cliques that high school is filled with. Many of the people I went to high school with were more concerned about whether they could sit with the “cool kids” at lunch, or whether you were wearing name brand shoes, than they were with doing well in school. Since I was a kid who wore cheap shoes and sat in the corner with a book all the time, I didn’t fit in there.

A lot of changes took place once I entered college. For one thing, college is much more of a personal choice than high school is. While some students might feel they are pressured by their parents to attend college, in the long run, college enrollment is voluntary. High school education, on the other hand, is required by law until the age of 16. The fact that college is voluntary means the students you meet here tend to be more interested in their education. The friends I have at school tend to discuss class projects, work together in studying and critiquing each others’ papers, and generally have a lot more concern about their success. There were kids I knew in high school that never did any work at all and who constantly wound up in detention because of their poor behavior; those kids didn’t end up going to college, most likely because of their negative attitudes.

Being around more positive, supportive people has had a good impact on my confidence and self-esteem. No one seems to care that I wear shoes from Walmart instead of Nikes. I’ve never seen someone in a college class acting up and throwing things like some of the troublemakers in high school did. There’s a lot more respect and support.

Another reason I have more confidence in college is that I can get a lot more personal support from my teachers. In high school, my teachers generally didn’t have time to help an individual student outside of class. My college professors, on the other hand, devote certain times each week to meeting with students in their office, in order to answer any questions they might have. There are times when I’m not sure if I’m doing a certain project or paper the right way, and it’s helpful to be able to get feedback that points me in the right direction. I also know throughout the whole semester how I’m doing grade-wise.

I’ve developed a lot more confidence as an adult than I used to have as a teenager. I’m sure that my increased confidence is going to help me in the future. I’m already seeing the beginnings of success, and there’s no negative people around me to hold me back.

Pride

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Today I got thinking about the idea of Pride. Not just the emotions pride stirs in us, but the ways in which we express it, the symbols we use to show it, and the different ways it can manifest. There are shared types of pride most of us have on a local or national level, and there are common traditions we use to express that pride and display our unity.

One of the most common and widely shared type of pride we all have is national, patriotic pride. This can, of course, manifest in different ways for different people. Some people are very proud to be Americans, especially if you have friends or family who are involved in the government or the armed forces. Someone very dear to me was in the Marines, so this is something I have a lot of personal experience with. Though even if you don’t know someone who has fought for our country, a lot of people still work hard to support our troops overseas.

Sometimes this sense of pride can be challenged, such as if you don’t agree with certain political decisions that have been made recently. Someone might feel that their pride has been reduced if, say, you’re a republican and don’t like the current democrat president, or if you are a democrat and didn’t like the former republican president. The same can apply to any elected office if the person you voted for didn’t get elected. However, what I think some people don’t realize is that even such emotions of disappointment don’t necessarily mean you’ve lost your pride. Part of pride is a desire for something better, and the fact that you care about a certain issue, law, political situation, and so on shows that you still have pride. Pride doesn’t always have to be about the way things are right now; pride can be about striving for an ideal that fits your sense of how things should be.

Regardless of how your pride manifests, whether it is stable or challenged, and how important it is to you, we all share certain expressions of this pride. One of the expressions can be the symbols that we use to portray it, such as the American flag. Then there are things like the pledge of allegiance, the national anthem, and things we consider to be “American,” ranging from baseball to apple pie. Some of these things are more commonly embraced than others, and some are more deep and meaningful than others, but they are all common symbols that most people recognize and understand.

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Another common form of pride people can share is pride in your school. There are a lot of ways that this type of pride is similar to national pride. It has the same sense of unity and community, even if it’s on a smaller scale. It comes from being members of a group that gives us a joint identity, and differentiates us from others who aren’t a member of the same group. This concept works equally well if we compare members of one college to those of another, if we look at competing sports teams, or if we consider the group dynamics of a fraternity or sorority. People like to be members of a group that means something to them, and it helps us connect to others on the basis of that shared identity.

Just as with national pride, school pride has a number of common symbols that members use to identify themselves. These can range from school logos to seals to mascots.

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Such symbols become easily recognizable, and are often portrayed to show off a student, teacher, or alumna’s connection to their school. We see these symbols everywhere around campus. All Rowan University forms and letters have such a symbol displayed somewhere on them, and so does the Rowan website. Students also often buy notebooks, folders, pens, and so forth that show a symbol of Rowan. Cars around campus can commonly be seen with a Rowan University sticker across the back windshield, showing off a student’s affiliation wherever they go. I also tend to spot a lot of cars all around South Jersey bearing the Rowan name. Alumni from years further back may also have a sticker that reads “Rowan College” from a time when the school was smaller than it is today, or “Glassboro State College,” from a time before the school was renamed after Henry Rowan’s donation in 1992.

Students even wear their pride on their sleeves… literally! The Rowan campus bookstore has a wide variety of Rowan clothing and gear, including hats, hoodies, shirts, pants, and sports clothes that allow Rowan students to show off their Rowan pride.

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Colleges also have school colors. Rowan’s are gold and brown, as can be seen in all of these pictures of Rowan symbols and clothing. What a lot of people don’t know, however, is why those particular colors were chosen. They are the colors of a flower called brown-eyed susans. These flowers grew in abundance around the area where Rowan was first built.

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Because the flowers were a part of the Glassboro area where Rowan grew into the place it is today, they represent Rowan’s birth and history. Thus, their colors were adopted as the school’s colors, and they grace all of the Rowan symbols to this day.

Sports teams are a great sense of pride (though some fair-weather fans might not feel that sense of pride if their team is having a bad season). Rowan’s sports teams are known as the Profs, and they’re represented by Whoo the Owl. The mascot was chosen as an owl because of Rowan’s history as an institution that focused on producing teachers through their education majors.

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The Prof’s owl image is seen around campus as commonly as the brown and gold colors themselves. His face graces many of the campus web pages, and can also be found on Rowan clothing and other items just like the university name and logo.

Regardless of how you choose to display your pride, it’s something that you can share with others who are a part of the same community. That sense of connection and unity is something that you can carry with you for the rest of your life.

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Decisions

We all have to make a lot of tough decisions in life. The older we get, the more decisions we end up being faced with. Will you go to college? What major will you choose? What career path will you seek? Will you travel and study abroad? Will you get married one day? These and countless other choices face us, and sometimes they can be very difficult choices to make.

Some of these choices don’t need to be made right away. I know people who wait years before making a decision to go back to school, or how to proceed in a relationship. I’ve known people who decided to take a year or two off after high school, travel, enjoy what freedoms they can, and they go back later once they have a better idea where they are going and what they want to do with their lives. That may not be the “traditional” route of going to college immediately after high school, but what is traditional doesn’t always work for everyone. The important thing to remember in such a situation is that there is always time to go back, there are always more options available to you, and no decision needs to be final.

You could be someone who decided years ago not to go to college, and now you’re thinking about going back. You could be someone who decided on a certain career path, and now you’re thinking a different route might be best for you. Making a change at that point in your life might be scary, but the choice is always there. Just because a certain decision seemed right years ago doesn’t mean you have to stick with it if it hasn’t been working out for you.

Some people get married before college. In some cases, it might not even seem like a “choice”; there could have been an unexpected pregnancy, in which case life has handed you a situation that takes priority over school. But while it might seem like the choice was taken out of your hands, it’s important to remember that there IS always still a choice, as long as you keep looking to the future. I know several students at Rowan who are married and/or have kids. In many cases they waited until the kids were a bit older before considering coming back to school, but the choice was still there. My own parents didn’t finish college until I was about 9 years old, and I was quite proud to attend my parents’ college graduation. Don’t ever think that just because you already have a family, that means you can’t still decide to make a better life for yourself (and by doing so, a better way to support your children).

There are some decisions in life that once made, last forever. Those types of decisions can be extremely tough, and might lead to long regrets if, years later, you wonder whether you made the right choice. However, you should never confuse those unchangeable choices with other choices that are never too late to change. I’m 33 years old and still made the choice to seek a new career path. Not only did I return to college after dropping out, but I also changed my major in order to pursue something I thought would be better for me. My choice of major and my choice to quit college years ago were both major choices… but they aren’t choices I am stuck living with forever. They’re choices I can now change, once I made the decision to do something different with my life.

And while change can be scary, there is power in knowing that the decision is still in your hands.

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